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Happy Birthday to ME!

6/1/2015

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Tomorrow is my birthday.  Some people love 'em and some people hate 'em. I always loved my birthday, and then I grew up. Why did this happen? Where did the magic go?  I realized that as my expectations grew, the ability of others to read my mind did not.

But I have cracked the code to ensuring a great birthday: effective communication.

It's simple, yet effective:
  • ask for what you want
  • be okay if you don't get it
  • plan for yourself
  • invite them in, but let others off the hook for your accountabilities
  • lower your expectations and they will always be exceeded

These rules can be applied universally:  To a project team team, a boss, a spouse.  Because it's actually just about being clear.  When you are clear the overall anxiety of a group goes down.  And the only way to communicate clearly is to be clear yourself.  I know what I want, I know how to get it, I am thrilled when others work with me, but I'm also okay if they are unable.

So I hope you all have a great June 2 and thanks for celebrating with me wherever you are!
2 Comments
Michele Treacy
6/1/2015 09:53:45 am

effectively communicated Mellissa and happy birthday to you - good luck with your new adventure
Best

Michele Treacy

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Chris
8/17/2015 05:53:39 am

Finally, I have the balls to tell you.
There is a special place in hell for cheaters who ruin families lives for their own gratification. I will never ever forget what you have done, nor will my daughter.
Hope it was worth it.

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